Personal values are the moral foundations on which each person relies to conduct themselves through life. It is a set of principles and qualities that someone, dynamically, displays in their daily life when making decisions or connecting with a neighbor .
By being clear about the value of integrity and working internally to have peace of mind, we advance along a path of righteousness , honesty and perseverance that facilitates the decision-making process and provides a stable structure to successfully overcome the challenge of preserving values even when The outlook is adverse.
It is essential to breathe positive values in the home and lead by example in order to ensure that, from an early age, good habits and principles are adopted that serve for the development of children, young people and adults in the educational community, in the family sphere and on the professional level. In a complementary way, children and young people must be trained in the school environment so that they deepen precise skills for teamwork, job performance and, ultimately, life in society .
Types of personal values
Personal values , those that make someone unique and easily recognizable among a lot of beings, are usually grouped into different categories depending on their essence , purpose and/or field of application.
According to the theory, spiritual values , educational values , professional values , social values , cultural values , family values , moral values and ethical values are recognized. It is even often said that there are aesthetic values that invite us to appreciate and enjoy beauty in all its splendor through creativity , harmony , elegance and delicacy .
It is also enriching to know that there are universal values that transcend eras and reach all of humanity, while others have a historical tone and are limited to a particular territory or period.
Importance
Having good personal values is necessary and important, basically, to be governed by an adequate code of conduct both in private and in public.
They are positive precepts that contribute to carrying out actions related to good faith , honesty , transparency , responsibility and ethics . These guidelines mark an exemplary lifestyle in which the virtues promote vital internal growth to achieve good personal development and reach a balance between what is thought, said and done.
It cannot fail to be mentioned that not all individuals are governed by the same principles (since each person receives a particular education, develops their own thoughts and is raised in contexts that shape their character), just as the values are not constant. that are being demonstrated. Sometimes, faced with certain experiences or situations, behavior varies and a reaction or response is triggered that forces us to rethink everything from beliefs and ways of being to goals and life philosophies. Always, without exceptions, even if we are all different and do not act like robots, it is ideal and convenient to be faithful to oneself, trusting in what one is, without betraying thoughts or beliefs rooted in the depths of one's being.
When it comes to reinforcing morally rooted beliefs or values , many people trust in the power of so-called acceptance and commitment therapy . In these sessions, the subject gains clarity to prioritize values and life objectives, learning to define, identify and organize by hierarchies the areas of value according to the importance that the couple, the family unit, friendships, work, etc. have for the individual. etc
It is also worth highlighting that there is a wide range of values that, first of all, have to be applied to oneself. This is what happens with respect and compassion , for example: it is essential to respect, accept, love, forgive and understand each other in order to build healthy, tolerant and empathetic interpersonal ties.
Examples of personal values
The ability to do good and help others is achieved through values such as solidarity , generosity and the vocation to serve , while mental strength is achieved and cultivated with perseverance , tranquility , security and trust. .
Showing a sense of responsibility , demonstrating punctuality , reflecting motivation , showing professional passion , having discipline and giving space to others through active listening and consideration , meanwhile, the professional career is favored. At work, leadership , open-mindedness , self-initiative and the desire for personal improvement are also recognized and valued.
Ethics , independence , impartiality , equity and reliability , to add another reference, allow us to impart justice and act daily in pursuit of it.
It is also essential to "have your say" , that is, to comply with what is said and not forget promises made. When the speech is translated into actions and what is promised is done, others see in you a trustworthy person worthy of respect .