A breakfast can be charming and irresistible if, in addition to being delicious, it is enjoyed in a pleasant place.
Charming is a word that, as indicated in the dictionary of the Royal Spanish Academy (RAE) , derives from a word belonging to late Latin. It is an adjective for which two interpretations are allowed: it can be used, says the theory, to describe that which manages to enchant or enchant, or with the purpose of referring to something that is extremely pleasant .
Throughout history, this concept has given content to expressions, phrases or titles that became relevant or popular for various reasons. The name “snake charmer” is used, for example, with the idea of referring to the men who, in India and other Asian nations, dedicate themselves to “hypnotizing” snakes by playing an instrument similar to a flute (pungi is the name that has been given to said wind instrument) although this expression can also be taken into account for a metaphorical or figurative purpose.
“The Dog Whisperer” , meanwhile, identifies a television program led by César Millán , a canine trainer who in each of the episodes of the project has shown how to rehabilitate and educate dogs with adaptation difficulties or aggressive behaviors to achieve a harmonious coexistence and that the humans in charge of these animals assume the role of “herd leader.” And on a literary level, to add another reference, this term appears in a book by Alison Cochrun that, in Spanish, has been baptized as “A charming prince.” This feminine word has also achieved visibility within the musical field thanks to “Encantadora” , a song by Yandel .
How to be charming
Being charming (or charming ) is achieved through cordial gestures, a fascinating personality and a style that is as seductive as it is elegant , among other items linked to good taste and charm.
Aesthetically, for someone or something to be charming, it has to meet parameters that make it attractive , beautiful , stimulating and hypnotic.
A man is described as charming , generally, when he is handsome and charismatic, shows signs of chivalry, has kind behaviors and a dazzling smile, among other positive traits. Charming women, for their part, usually shine through their friendliness , their cheerful spirit, their looks, a great sense of humor and their intelligence.
A beautiful, playful and tender animal is always charming.
Charming people , in short, are beautiful and radiant inside and out. They are gentle, respectful, polite and genuine, their smile is on full display, they offer warm treatment and enchant with a positive, calm, coherent and authentic attitude.
If we focus attention on a landscape , however, the qualification as charming will be achieved by the natural environment that, due to its colors, richness and location, provokes fascination and lends itself to contemplation because it is beautiful , picturesque and inspiring.
Also a town , whether due to its history, the warmth of its people, its heritage or its location, can be considered charming , especially at a tourist level. A museum, a show, an event, a dessert or an animal, to name other alternatives, can even be charming if they cause fascination, amazement , delight or joy. In practice it is possible to pronounce or read phrases like “It was a dream party, a lovely night!” , “The talk I had with such a prestigious author was charming and unforgettable,” “It is a charming film full of magic,” “How loving your son is, he is charming!” , “It's lovely to get home and the food is already prepared” , “I found the hotel charming, very welcoming” or “It's lovely to listen to you” .
Through books one can travel with the imagination to enchanting, wonderful and magical worlds.
Charm as a resource to do evil
By being charming one can influence another obtaining the desired end, that is why there are people who use charm as a resource to do evil and take advantage of themselves.
With cunning and strategies to be convincing and gain both the trust and approval of others, one can manipulate, defraud and deceive someone.
It is sometimes difficult to realize that you are facing a being that, although it may not appear, has bad intentions or is, behind its noble and loving image, a dangerous person or worthy of fear. Many victims of gender violence , for example, admit that their attacker was charming and seductive at the beginning of the relationship, as well as testimonies abound from people who have suffered or are suffering psychological abuse by someone with a good reputation who does not seem to be To the outside, what he truly is: a monster that humiliates, torments, intimidates, attacks and sows panic in whoever he claims to love.
As a precaution, it is advisable to always have your senses on alert and pay attention to signs or indications that reveal the perverse and malicious essence of the toxic, manipulative and violent person who hides behind a charming appearance, feigning a romanticism or kindness that is not true. has.